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Am I a bad guy for feeling like this dealing with a sick wife?
Question by Ronnie N: Am I a bad guy for feeling like this dealing with a sick wife?
My wife and I have been married for 17 years. Met in high school married at 22 years old.
About 7 months after we were married my wife was diagnosed with M.S. ( multiple Sclerosis )
Trust me when I say they have no ” good ” treatments for M.S.
It is not ” fixable”. I am a healthy man and have always been. I love to go outdoors, fishing, hiking, swimming exc…..
My wife is unable to do any of these things with me because one of the issues with M.S. is fatigue. She can not or wont do anything with me, the things that I love to do because of the fatigue. Another thing that goes along with M.S. is immune system can’t fight off viruses like a norman immnue system. So, she is always comming down with something that makes her feel worse.
So, here I am healthy, somewhat charming man that feels like I have been given this life to bear. I love her very much, that is why I am still with her. I believe marriage is forever but, at the same time I cannot enjoy life with the one I love. ( or at least not all of life )
She was cute as a button when we got married. Due to some of the ” treatments ” it has caused her to gain a LOT of weight. She weighs almost twice what she did when I married her.
How do I keep dealing with this?????
Am I a DOG for wanting to spend life with someone who is a healthy person? Who do I deal with this?
It just SUCKS !!!!!!!!
Yes I know my wife if she did not have this disease would be able to do some of the things that I feel like I am getting short-changed with.
She always says that I am going to leave her but, I have NEVER given her a reason for thinking this.
Are there some support groups for people like me?
Another thing she has not been able to have an orgasum in the last 13 years because she has no feeling ” down there “.
I also miss the sex, man do I miss the sex. Am I wrong for wanting to see and hear a woman have a mind blowing climax?
It just sucks !!!!!!!!!!!!
I can’t believe some of the people here.
If you dont have to deal with personaly the what the F$(K do you know.
You dont have a clue BASTARDS
I look for sympothy and I get shit?
F*&K you !!!
Best answer:
Answer by Aunt Dee
There are support groups. Just do a search. Lets face it, they could only help. How many other guys are going through the same thing?
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